A year ago, I asked one of the known dating coach in the Philippines - Marco Lee. I didn't post this one that time for its too much negativity. As I went back and read the story again, I thought of sharing it to everyone now. There is something that can be learned in this and you can use it throughout your whole life.
"Nobody really cares if you're miserable, so you might as well be happy."
"Fucking so fucking fuck fuck fuck." - This is what I say when I think I screwed up at something or something is happening that I don't like or if I'm sad and I can't do anything about it.
The title came from Dating Coach Marco Lee, I consulted him after having problems which I can't handle anymore. This problem, it really makes me feel uncomfortable and queasy. It's about relationship actually. I told him, that I'm always feeling worried about my current relationship that I don't want to let go of the girl, that I become needy and chasing for her love.
And this is what he said to me, that I base the situations through my feelings which is a big No No. What feelings? Of course this a relationship it is really included. But he told me that if the girl is cold to you don't think about it, be unreactive, that's the key. You must not care whether she is not saying I love you to you, you do the same if you want.
Don't think too much, free yourself, enjoy what you're doing, keep yourself busy. Don't take things seriously you're not yet ready for a marriage. Then I told him I just care about the relationship and the girl. He said that's another problem, "The one who cares more has less power" and you will be controlled which is an another No No in a relationship.
After that, I came to a realization that what he's saying is right, I have my own life too, and she is not yet my wife to bother it so much, if she's not attracted to me anymore let it be, move on, move forward, if I want then I can date another girl, there are like billions of women in the world, less men so I don't have to worry about getting laid or getting love.
"The One Who Cares More Has Less Power" - Marco Lee
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